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Parenting shouldn't feel like a mystery, a puzzle or a burden!

If you only knew...Nature has your back through ATTACHMENT.

Parenting is truly supposed to be natural and simple and effective.

Nature has a purpose and a perfectly designed plan for this to work.

You have this innate power right now. It's how you were made to do this.

When you know the power of attachment...

You'll finally get what your job as a parent actually is.

You'll know how to best support the whole relationship all 18 years!


Talk + Audit + Checklist FREE Below!


What does this even mean and why should you care?


Let's get you super clear about what attachment is. 

Attachment does 3 important things. 

It gives you your power to parent. 

It engages your child’s innate drive to be receptive to your parenting. 

And it is the only way your child will ever reach full maturity. 

It's not attachment parenting.  It's not just a good relationship or what feels like a strong connection or bond. 

It's not mainstream advice. It's also not fluff, BS or bypassing! It's how you were made and designed to do this. 

It’s the missing piece that will change your approach and experience of parenting like nothing else you have ever heard.

Hit play and find out in 4 minutes!

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Let's go a little deeper in the VITAL Talk. 

Pop me in your ears. I'll break it down and make it all make sense.

It's not fair to you or them, that you don't know these fundamental concepts. It'll blow you away!

I'll shine a light on all the places you have no idea you're hurting attachment and keeping your kids stuck.

The knowledge EMPOWERS YOU. Just having the awareness will shift so much in your life right now.

Let's see if your child is stuck with the Attachment Audit.

Without attachment they're essentially trying to survive without you! 

They're STUCK in survival mode. They become in charge of protecting themselves.

5 questions. Then I'll give you what to do to strengthen attachment where you need it. 

This is your forever reference so that you always know how to get your power back.



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Let's see if you're hurting Attachment with the Connection Checklist.

10 things you might be doing to hurt your attachment.

Simple ideas so you can become the attachment they need you to be. 

Attachment will transform your mind, approach + experience of parenting

You are your child’s only answer and you have to remain the answer.

You have to know how to keep attachment through their entire childhood.

If they’re attached, you have all you need. This is how it was made to WORK!

It's do I get my child to be good? 

It's...does my child want to be good for ME?  ONLY if they're attached!

Right now you have no idea what your job is and you’re looking outside yourself for the solution.

Or you’re labeling behavior all kinds of things it’s NOT.

You’re wasting time, energy, money and their childhood on band-aids!

You weren't told this foundational concept


It's the most important, missing piece in raising your child.

To know how you were designed to do this.

How development is supposed to happen.

Without it you’re doing everything in opposition to attachment.

You’re wiring their bodies to adapt.

You’re keeping them stuck.


They won’t develop into their fullest potential or maturity.

They’ll grow older but not truly grow up.

They’ll become an adult who spends their life coping or having to heal.


The only place you will find the insight, inspiration and tools for Somatic Parenting

Information will continue to flood and confuse you. You have to actually implement and experience. 

This is where you can ask the hard questions and get the real answers. 

Where you can receive the support and guidance you want in the places you need it the most. 

Where you can BE with other moms in a safe space connecting, relating and sharing your own wisdom. 

Intro to Somatic Parenting. Resources + Tools Arsenal. Breathwork Library

Weekly Somatic Practices. Q+A Calls 


H i ! I'm Jen


Being a Mom is hard and your hard is different from mine, but the reason why it’s hard is the same.

I promise it comes down to 2 root causes, attachment and the nervous system, and they have to be the basis of your parenting,

If you want to do this right! Yes, there's actually a right way. It’s the only way your child will possibly get to their fullest potential.

The only way they won’t be wired from adapting and coping. Or make it to the end of the developmental timeline to maturity.

When you have your focus and awareness always pointing to these 2 places, you'll never lose your way again.

And it will touch every part of your life and make it better! ☺


I’m pretty sure I’ll probably never choose the word easy to describe parenting, but what I need you to know is, the concept is simple.

It’s hard because we don’t even know we have the option. That we're supported every step of the way. We don’t know nature has our back!


I’m not sure why it’s not the very first thing every mom is told. Or how with all there is to consume this isn’t loudly and boldly in our face.

This is the only explanation. It’s literally how our bodies are wired. 

Why are we ignoring that simple truth? Why are we told in every way to work against it?

It’s absolutely how we can parent effectively. And we think we’re crazy, broken or a mess?!


This isn’t like I hope or this might work for you because it did for me. Nope!

This is literally how we were made. There is no exception here. Human?! This will work.


Parenting shouldn’t feel like a puzzle or a mystery or a burden.

Because we don’t have time for that! That was my biggest fear. I was going to miss it! 

I thought I’d never find what I needed for it to feel good…in time.

That they'd grow up and it would never stop sucking, I'd never find the joy, and I'd mess them up.


Then a car hit my house 2 inches from Chloe’s crib.

A portal opened for my healing and to all of this hidden, secret information.

The nervous system and attachment is the root cause, always has been, always will be.

I'm beyond grateful that I get to share it with you. 

It fascinates me how it all connects and touches every part of our lives.

It feels like magic...but that's just Nature! And that's something I've always known.

You'll remember too. I'll help you find what's already within you.


You don’t have to be perfect or healed. You don’t need strategies. No products. Just some time spent with me in The Mom Spiral! ☺♥



Power to Parent


Root of Behavior
Frustration. Aggression
Counterwill. Strong Willed Kids
Discipline. Repair


Before Baby - First Year
Foundation of Secure






Power of  True Play
Self + Connected
Direct behavior


Food to support
Body + Behavior
Nervous System
Blood Sugar

The details of each to help you decide where to start your Spiral!

'BEING WITH' Playbook

The hardest part can be being with them or yourself. It’s simple, it really is and the concept is actually so perfect.

You heal yourself while being with them, which is everything and all they need to truly learn emotional regulation.

I give you all the ways to actually show up. The BEING part! The how real life, in real time. 

Showing up is about feeling and healing our way through this.

It's all about connection and attachment for both of you. That's what they truly NEED on a primal core level.

By 'being with' in different ways is how you have to approach this relationship and keep attachment in place and strong.

I give lots of examples and inspiration and also the foundational information behind it.

I deeply believe in empowering our kids. 

So I give you many ways to implement this through the body which is only place this all happens and wires.

How to model it and plan together. With easy explanations for your kids to have the foundational understanding too! 

70 + Activities, Tools, Videos to Equip, Inspire + Empower Your Kids!

A resource library filled with impactful, purposeful methods that can be used for a lifetime.

A unique collaboration covering a myriad of skills.

​A broad range of extraordinary ways for kids to build a strong inner world.

Ideas to weave into ways of being and daily life.

Interactive videos for your kids with other kids.

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KID SPIRAL Collection



How I got here and what I want for you

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Have a question? I have an answer ☺ Please send them! 


nature’s most favored pattern of growth

most effective deployer of its energy

life inducing, protecting, supporting

weaving its magic from vanishingly small

to unimaginable huge levels of existence

how the Universe shapes us


Life's path isn't a straight line, it is a Spiral.

You continually come back to things, 

for deeper truths.

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